My wife is staying separate from me…when will she be back to my life again?
Dear Pramod, From looking at your chart, I can tell that your wife wanted far more independence than you were able to give her. The ruler of your house of marriage (Mars) is ‘trapped’ in the 12th house of bondage or behind-the-scenes activities.
With Aries on the point of marriage, you’re attracted to a fiery, independent woman. Yet with Mars, Moon, Saturn and Pluto all together in the 12th house, you aren’t willing to give her the freedom she requires, and therefore she felt stifled or even abused.
With South Node in Capricorn, you’re quite traditional, and need to work on developing your North Node in Cancer – becoming attuned to women’s (and your own) needs and emotions. Freedom-oriented Uranus is transiting your point of marriage through Feb. 2019, so it’s highly unlikely that your wife will return between now and then.
You both need space, and divorce is a very real possibility. The situation will never return to the way it was, but there’s always the chance that you may eventually reunite on much different terms. Do some deep soul-searching about the way you were taught (by your parents and the culture you grew up in) to treat women, and what you expect from your wife. She is a modern woman who is trying to throw off the shackles of the past and be honored for who she is. If you support her in doing that and respect her autonomy, eventually you may be able to reconcile. Blessings to you, Luna (Simone)