I don’t mean to dismiss positive thinking out of hand; I perform my new and full moon rituals, after all. But it seems obvious that what we want is not always exactly what we’ll get – sometimes, it won’t even be close. And I’ll take this a step further: Sometimes, maybe we shouldn’t get exactly what we want. I shudder to think what would have happened had I married the man with whom my 25-year-old self was so desperately infatuated. Our ability to visualize something and to pursue it with positive thoughts and actions is not only no guarantee that we’ll get it—and it’s no guarantee that it’s even worth pursuing.

Aries rules “me” energy, along with the head, face, and brain.  The Full Moon in Libra rules “we” energy, along with the kidneys and lower back.  These areas of the body want balancing now.  Without enough “me” time, we’ll suffer in the lower back.  Without enough “we” time, the brain overheats and gets agitated.  A wonderful solution is to simply observe the head and low back together.