Dear Luna, I have been single for the last five years. After my marriage broke I fully dedicated myself to my children and my studies. Now I have more time to think about a new inspiration, a new love. Can you tell me where and when are the opportunities for me to find a new partner? Silvana
Dear Silvana, There is a kind of awakening happening for you over the next few years, as Uranus crosses your Ascendant and Sun. It’s like you’re coming alive again, by focusing on you and what makes you happy. This is a very exciting but also impulsive time, so take care with jumping into a relationship too soon or otherwise taking huge risks that come from an ungrounded place.
That said, you can have a great deal of fun – especially once Jupiter enters your fifth house of playfulness and romance in July for a year. I would advise signing up for classes or doing activities that stimulate your inner fire – especially dancing, making art, doing athletics or playing games. You’re likely to find playmates in those arenas.
With Chiron triggering your Venus through the end of this year, though, I’m wondering if you have fully healed the wounds from your marriage falling apart. It sounds like you’ve been focusing on other things, so if you haven’t allowed yourself to grieve, forgive – or to explore your role in what happened – then it’s super-important that you do that now. Even though you do have a lucky Jupiter aspect for love in July, Venus will be retrograde all summer so be careful not to get drawn back into old patterns from the past (especially feeling sorry for someone and wanting to help him).
Saturn crossing your Moon– Neptune-Jupiter conjunction in Sagittarius this year won’t let you get away with much. In other words, making a mad, impulsive leap into a sexual relationship will likely backfire. So I’d recommend having lots of fun and developing friendships with men this year rather than trying to nail anything down into a commitment. You may in fact need several years of exploring and developing the ‘new you’ before you’re ready to settle down with someone again. Let the process unfold naturally and you’ll be fine.
Many blessings to you, Luna’s emissary, Simone Butler