I was born on April 24, 1959. I’ve been alone for a long time though I have had 2 significant relationships in my life. Will I ever find a partner again? (EE)
You have asked the right question at the right time which is an intuitive, attuned response from your Scorpio Moon. Do you truly want a partner? Your 7th house Sun and Libra rising clearly say Yes. When the sign of love and partnership rises in one’s chart, it is natural to deeply desire a loving partner in your life. Add to your rising sign, your Sun, the essential self, in Libra’s 7th house of partnership and marriage along with your North Node of the Moon in Libra and your soul path is clearly one of partnership. These indicators have already manifested your two significant relationships. Your 7th house is ruled by Mars at 8 degrees of Cancer opposing your natal Saturn at 7 degrees and squaring your natal Mercury at 6 degrees, a cardinal T-Square signaling loss, difficulty, challenges and struggle in relationships. For the last 3 to 4 years either transiting Pluto or Uranus or both of these planets have been challenging this natal T-Square describing both your lack of a partner and the necessity of this time to be alone in your life. Fortunately, this time ended in September of 2013 opening the door to a new chapter in your love life.
2014 is a dynamic, exciting year for you romantically, professionally and personally – transiting Uranus conjuncting your Descendant, the angle of marriage and partnership, bringing a new, very different man into your life for a significant relationship; your progressed Venus conjuncting your natal Uranus offering both a new love and perhaps a new or better job/promotion due to the position of Uranus in your 10th house of career; your progressed Mars, the ruler of your 7th house, moving to conjunct your natal Uranus over the next several years which will likely signal a marriage; and your solar arc progressed Mars moving into a conjunction with your natal Pluto. Quite a convergence of opportunity and change which surely indicates that you are ready for a new chapter in your life and that the opportunity for welcome change is just ahead.
With your progressed Mercury conjuncting your Midheaven in 2014/2015, this is also an opportune career moment for you. Life is going to get very interesting!
I was born on May 10, 1977. I am having a hard time with my marriage after 9 years, It is not as fulfilling as it once was. I have changed so much that I am having a hard time relating to my husband now. Is this something that will get easier soon or should I wait until the aspects are better for us?I would really love your advice. Thank you very much. My husband was born on September 16, 1977. Thanks. (TJ)
It would be surprising if you were not at least restless in your marriage or questioning or contemplating separating or divorce, a natural response to the ruler of your 7th house of marriage, Venus at 11 degrees of Aries, currently squared by Pluto and conjuncted by Uranus. This is the most challenging time you will likely ever have in marriage which suggests the importance of taking time to explore what is at the core of your discontent with your husband; who you were when you married versus who you are now; what you expected from marriage then and and now; and what you really want from your life. This time, these aspects may signal a coming divorce but they are not complete for another year which gives you the time you need to understand this evolution in yourself, your marriage and what you will choose for your future. Don’t feel guilty taking the time you need. Not only does your chart show the powerful aspects impacting your marriage enumerated earlier but your progressed Venus is also opposing your natal Uranus so, yes, you are the one who has changed and is changing. A chart comparison with your husband shows why you two fell in love and married – Sun trine Sun, Moon trine Moon, Mercury trine Mercury, both Venus positions in fire signs and both Ascendants in Scorpio. All of these compatibilities are sweet, easy, natural attractions in your 20’s when you two married. The question now is”do you both want the same things in marriage and life now and in the future?” Your husband has Venus conjunct Saturn ruling his 7th house while you have Venus conjunct Mars opposite Pluto ruling yours; he wants to stay comfortably married in a traditional or predictable relationship, to be safe and secure, while you want depth, intimacy, growth and a trans formative excitement. Saturn and Pluto are not the same though there is love which is why this is really hard. It will be another year before the aspects get easier suggesting that you have time to engage your husband in deepening your marriage seeing what is possible between you two, a responsibility I think you feel as a loyal Taurus. Your Venus also rules your 6th house which is the arena of our work and its meaning in our lives. Is your work fulfilling, challenging and soulful? If not, try channeling some of your discontent into transforming your work which may ease your marriage and, if not, this will add clarity to the coming choices for your marriage. While this is not an easy time in your life, it is a very important time when you are determining the path you will travel in the future. Take your time and seek the support you need during this powerful time.
