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When your Venus is in Cancer

By Dana Gerhardt

 

Below is an excerpt from the findings of my Venus research (more info about that here):

What turns me on? Knowing that someone wants my company… Of course they’d also have to know I am ultra sensitive, especially my breasts.–GV

I don’t know how I can stop men from turning me into their caretaker/mother when I rebel so much against it.  I want to be a lover more than anything.  I enjoy mothering my kids, but that is enough. –VP

My body requires gentleness, consideration and reverence.  It doesn’t like to be hurt, pushed, pulled or anything else that might cause discomfort.  It doesn’t like anything that feels aggressive.  –BW

Your Venus in Cancer desires to explore and embody the protective, nurturing aspect of the Divine Feminine.  She’s kind and compassionate–and fiercely protective.  She is the you inside that’s naturally loving, receptive, and strong.  She may be comfortable walking up to someone she’s interested in and striking up a conversation, because she has a way of creating family.  Venus in Cancer makes the world feel at home.

The cruelest thing someone can do to your Venus in Cancer is to withdraw from you emotionally.  Abandonment is one of the most difficult sorrows to bear.

A feminine planet in a feminine sign

Your Venus is ruled by the Moon–the other  feminine light. With a feminine planet in a feminine sign, astrologers get excited and say how nice.  Your Venus has double the femininity.  I’m not sure I agree with this.  For one, it can make this placement uncomfortably sensitive.  It helps if you develop good boundaries.

Venus and the Moon are at opposite ends of the feminine range… and when you fold them on top of each other, rather than doubling the femininity, you can get less… What happens is one goddess seems to dominate the other.  With Venus in Cancer, sensuality can take a back seat to the rewards of mother love.

Even if your Venus in Cancer doesn’t have or want children, she’s likely into the things that cultivate life…  growing a garden, creating nourishing foods, even building a business or indulging in creative projects.

Knowing how to please and be pleased

Venus in Cancer is typically very giving. But the biggest complaint with this placement was that she didn’t always know how to receive. As one man with Venus in Cancer put it:

I probably please others better than I am myself fulfilled.

What would the perfect lover need to know about my body? This is a difficult question. I don’t know for sure… There is so much more I need to discover about myself and my body!–CG

This woman was in her twenties.  I heard something similar from a woman in her fifties, who (and god bless her) had just recently discovered what pleased her in bed!   Your Venus in Cancer may be much more attuned to the presence or lack of emotional intimacy with your partner than the quality of the sensuality.  But a Venus still has needs.

The raw energies inside your Cancer Venus

When astrology was a sacred practice, it was understood that life itself, our very bodies, were infused with the divine.  The first astrologers knew the Gods as the powerful, vibrant and creative play of emotions running through their world.  The gods appeared as sandstorms, thunder claps, bird song, floods, abundant harvests, calamities, shouts of sorrow and joy.

Gods are immortal which means we can still find them as the ancients did.  Astrology can help.  Signs point us to the raw energies that define each sign–the underlying element and mode.  The element describes the dominant style of energy your Venus likes to run.  This is her fuel.  The mode describes her preferred speed.  Together they suggest the sensory coordinates to use when dialing in your Venus.

Water

Cancer is a water sign.  Water is shapeless, pliable, cleansing, and life-giving.  Use your imagination to make these sensations more vivid. Imagination is the control panel that takes us into the invisible world.  Imagine dipping it into a pool of water that’s just the right temperature for you.  Feel how receptive it is to you.  How easily it allows you in. It can warm you, cool you, refresh you, and restore you.  Or it can pelt you with unwanted raindrops. Or gather in a torrent that can wash away your house.  Water planets can sound like this:

I need to feel my feelings.

I’m a natural healer.

I care.

I’m secretive, self-contained.

I’m easily overwhelmed.

I’m the one who listens to the longings of the soul.

Drip, drip, drip.  I can wear myself out with the unceasing drip of my feelings.

Imagining something is usually easier than doing it.

I tend to flow away from obstacles.  Sometimes I float or drift through life.

Cardinal

This is the rhythm section–the bass line in your Venus song.  With cardinal signs, the tempo is active, restless, on the move, like a busy mother.  It likes to take care of things quickly.   Find your Venus in energy that is alert and responsive to the energies of others in the world.

I’m ambitious and enterprising.

I’m fearless and competitive.

I may do too much too soon, and escape things before they’re really over.

Give me a crisis—anything—something! I hate being bored

It’s not that I like to argue—I just enjoy being right.

I create rules and I break rules–I don’t particularly follow them.

I’m great in emergencies.

I want what I want when I want it.

 

You can learn even more about your Cancer Goddess in my Venus Unleashed report!  Available here.

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About Dana Gerhardt

A popular columnist with The Mountain Astrologer since 1991, Dana Gerhardt is an internationally respected astrologer. She has lectured extensively and written for astrology publications on several continents. Her ongoing passions are the moon and living the intuitive life. Dana worked for many years in the corporate sector, where she observed the undeniable influence of natural cycles. She graduated Phi Beta Kappa, Magna Cum Laude from Occidental College in Los Angeles and did graduate work in literature at Columbia University and CSULA. Dana can be contacted by email.

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The Moon is in its
Full Phase

in the
Sign of Scorpio


Today's Lunar Aspects (Greenwich Mean Time)
(subtract: PST -8 hours, PDT -7 hours, EST -5 hours, EDT -4 hours)

  • Moon opposite Uranus, 2:35am  May 13 2025
  • Moon trine Saturn, 6:37am  May 13 2025
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  • Moon sextile Pluto, 4:11pm  May 13 2025

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Astrologers use a variety of house systems, or methods of dividing up the sky into twelve sections. I use the Porphyry house system; another popular house system is Placidus (this is the default on https://astro.com). If the chart I send you looks different from what you are used to seeing, then likely a system other than Porphyry was used. Whole signs, Equal House, Regiomantus, and Campanus are examples of other systems. If you find all of this confusing, do not worry. It is likely not critical to your report.

m  Conjunction:  Like peas in a pod, planets in conjunction tend to come from the same place. They act together, but it’s also hard to tell them apart. This aspect can increase talent, focus, and intensity (“two are better than one”). Or one planet can disappear as the other dominates. Their connection feels so natural, it’s easy to think everyone blends these planetary energies just as you do—but mostly, they don’t!.

p  Sextile:  Planets in sextile are compatible, though without any fireworks. This aspect doesn’t demand your attention. It quietly presents an opportunity. You can join these archetypal forces. Donna Cunningham has called this the “Oh, that!” aspect, because that’s generally what her clients say when she describes their benefits.  To get the most from sextiles you need to actively work them.

q  Square:  Squares are wild and wonderful—but difficult too. The power struggle between these planets was likely defined in your youth, when they were impossibly challenging. People are usually aware of their squares. They force the issues that make you to grow. And that’s their gift. They ensure you learn your lessons. When you rise to the occasion, they bless you with energy, action, and success.

r  Trine:  Michael Munkasey has dubbed this the “goddess aspect” because it’s so lovely. Identifying talents you may have perfected in a previous life, trines can bring you joy. There’s a nice flow of energy between planets in trine. They support and reinforce each another. But without any struggle, you might take them for granted—neither using nor developing their gifts. An unattended trine can sometimes trick you into negative behaviors.

t  Inconjunct/Quincunx:  Your quincunx planets are innately incompatible. Bringing them into harmonious expression requires constant adjustments. This can be stressful, also motivating. You’ve got to keep changing your process, opinions or attitude—which promotes highly creative solutions.

u  Opposition:  They say opposites attract—and planets in opposition are never far from each other, though they’re constantly bickering. You may be triggered into awareness of this aspect by other people who seem to resist or undermine you.  An opposition can make you feel uncertain, insecure, or discontent, until you can accept and see yourself in both energies. Typically people find it easier to identify with one side and project the other onto unsuspecting others in the outer world.

First House: Personality, physical body, beginnings. Includes the Ascendant and rules physical appearance, the image you project to others, your general outlook on life, how you start things; may describe your role in your family system, often guides your first impression of immediate environment.

Second House: Money and personal finances, sense of self-worth and basic values, personal possessions, talents.

Third House: Communication, thoughts, language skills like writing and speaking, early schooling, siblings and neighbors, short trips, coming and going around town.

Fourth House: Your home, psychological foundations and roots, family, parents, domestic life, instinctive behavior, ancestry, your connection with the past, sense of security, domestic life, real estate. conditions at the end of life.

Fifth House: Children, creativity, romance; pleasure, entertainment, self-expression; all forms of “play”, speculation, gambling, and attitude towards taking risks; hobbies, attitude towards romance, lovers as opposed to partners, attitude towards having fun.

Sixth House: Work and job (as opposed to career), daily life, attitude towards service and coworkers, helpfulness, pets, attitude towards routine and organization, how you refine and perfect your skills.

Seventh House: Partnerships, one-to-one relationships, marriage, the first marriage, the “significant other”, business partnerships, competitors, open enemies, lawyers, mediators, counselors, contracts, negotiations, agreements. clients/the public.

Eighth House: Transformations and crisis, your ability to meet and rebound from crisis and change, sexuality; sex, death and rebirth, rituals and personal growth, your partner’s resources, addictions, psychology, other people’s money, taxes, divorce/alimony, inheritance.

Ninth House: Attitude toward expanding horizons, religious beliefs and personal philosophy, higher education, long-distance travel, morals, foreign languages and cultures, personal truths, publishing, commerce, advertising, your sense of adventure.

Tenth House: Career and profession, your contribution to society, social status, public reputation, material success, how you carve out a public identity for yourself; attitude toward authority figures, parents, caregivers, bosses, governments, attitude towards responsibility, desire for achievement.

Eleventh House: Friends, groups, organizations; hopes, wishes, aspirations, personal goals; your philanthropic attitude, concern for the collective, humanity; like tenth, can bring recognition and honors for fulfilling hopes and dreams.

Twelfth House: What’s hidden beneath the surface, karmic dustbin, limiting childhood/past-life messages, self-undoing, hidden enemies, hidden weaknesses, dreams, secret affairs, lost items, hospitals and prisons, hidden strengths, spiritual studies and soul growth.

A  Sun: Our vitality and magnetism; self-identity, ego.
Roles: The Self, the Hero, the Performer, the King.

B  Moon: Intuition, emotion, nurture.
Roles: The Mother, the High Priestess, the Child.

C  Mercury: Mind; physical dexterity and mental agility.
Roles: The Thinker, the Communicator, the Student, the Trickster, the Merchant, the Thief.

D  Venus: Our capacity for pleasure, receptivity, creativity, and social connection. Also indicates our relationships, self esteem, and financial abundance.
Roles: The Lover, the Seductress, the Artist.

E  Mars: Desire, initiative, anger.
Roles: The Protector, the Athlete, the Warrior.

F  Jupiter: Luck, opportunity, expansion, higher learning, religion.
Roles: The Scholar, the Gypsy, the Traveler, the Monk, the Professor.

G  Saturn: Hard work, commitment, focus, inadequacy, leadership, suffering, loss.
Roles: The Task Master, the Grim Reaper, the Wise Old Man, the Builder, the Cynic, the Boss.

H  Uranus: Change, breakthroughs, upsets, discoveries.
Roles: The Revolutionary, the Humanitarian, the Visionary, the Snob.

I  Neptune: Imagination, spirituality, idealism, addictions, deception, compassion.
Roles: The Artist, the Romantic, the Guru, the Addict, the Martyr, the Victim.

J  Pluto: Transformation, power, psychological dynamics, helplessness.
Roles: The Terrorist, the Detective, the Psychotherapist, the Dictator, shady people.

a  Aries: Pioneering, competitive, selfish, impatient, courageous, reckless, independent, dynamic, domineering, “Me first!”

b  Taurus: Patient, stable, lazy, dependable, practical, sensual, stubborn, artistic, possessive, greedy, gentle, loyal.

c  Gemini: Intelligent, curious, adaptable, quick-witted, restless, clever, scatterbrained, lacking follow-through.

d  Cancer: Nourishing, intuitive, protective, moody, sensitive, maternal, domestic, childish, cautious, creative.

e  Leo: Proud, dignified, vain, expressive, romantic, generous, childish, overbearing, self-assured, creative.

f  Virgo: Perfection-seeking, practical, methodical, petty, critical, studious, discriminating, cautious, never satisfied.

g  Libra: Charming, sociable, peace-loving, refined, diplomatic, artistic, indecisive, apathetic, easily deterred.

h  Scorpio: Passionate, secretive, penetrating, resourceful, suspicious, manipulative, jealous, sarcastic, intolerant, determined, aware.

i  Sagittarius: Freedom-loving, philosophical, optimistic, enthusiastic, careless, impatient, talkative, a know-it-all, broadminded, athletic, honest.

j  Capricorn: Serious, responsible, practical, hardworking, stubborn, brooding, inhibited, status-conscious, domineering, unforgiving.

k  Aquarius: Progressive, individualistic, unpredictable, cold, intellectual, artistic, eccentric, shy, impersonal, scientific.

l  Pisces: Compassionate, intuitive, ungrounded, romantic, impractical, self-sacrificing, seductive, musical, artistic.